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اسوأ اسلوب يستخدمه النرجسي للتلاعب بك / Gaslighting
اسوأ اسلوب يستخدمه النرجسي للتلاعب بك / Gaslighting Fakty Jebać fałsz 1 Views • 1 year ago

في هذا الفيديو شرح عن اخطر اساليب التلاعب التي يستخدمها الشخص السام وايضا الشخص الذي يعاني من اضطراب الشخصية النرجسية او السلوك النرجسي ويستخدمه كوسيلة اخضاع وتلاعب بالشخص الذي يكون معه على علاقة عاطفية او علاقة عمل.

ويهدف هذا الاسلوب للتشكيك بصحة الذكريات والدماغ لدى الشخص الذي يتعرض لهذه الاساءة وايضا يعتبر النرجسي ان له الحق بالتحكم بالاشخاص والسيطرة على قراراتهم ومشاعرهم لكي تخدم مصالحهم.

وبالفيديو سأشرح:
1- ما هو ال Gaslighting
2- سبب تسمية هذا الاسلوب بهذا الاسم
3-العلامات التي تدل على انك تعرضت لمثل هذا الاسلوب من التلاعب
4-امثلة على هذا الاسلوب
5- طريقة التعامل مع هذا الاسلوب

اتمنى ان تعم الفائدة على جميع المشتركين والذين هم بحاجة لمثل هذا النوع من التوعية ولاتنسوا الاشتراك بالقناة وتفعيل زر الجرس لكي يصلكم كل فيديو جديد.

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Fakty Jebać fałsz 1 Views • 1 year ago

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A narcissist is someone who has an inflated sense of self-importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others. People with narcissistic personality disorder often believe they are superior to others and have little regard for other people's feelings. They tend to be controlling and have difficulty accepting criticism or setbacks. Narcissistic behavior can be detrimental to relationships and can be damaging to an individual's mental and physical health.

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- Narcissists feel entitled and act in ways that cross your boundaries.
- Narcissists Create fantasies of having the perfect life, family, children or success.
- Narcissists Look down on others, and create gangs or groups from which to oppress people.
- Belittle others ideas and opinions as being inferior, invalid and not worth listening to.
- Expect others to comply with their way of doing things.
- Manipulate and use people to get what they want.
- Narcissists have no empathy for the needs of others
- Narcissists behave in an arrogant or haughty manner, coming across as conceited, boastful and pretentious

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- Feel depressed and moody because they fall short of perfection
- Have secret feelings of insecurity, shame, vulnerability and humiliation

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Gaslighting - MANIPULACJA, która niszczy wiarę w siebie
Gaslighting - MANIPULACJA, która niszczy wiarę w siebie Fakty Jebać fałsz 1 Views • 1 year ago

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Socjologia Gaslightingu: https://journals.sagepub.com/d....oi/abs/10.1177/00031

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0:00 - Czym jest gaslighting?
2:31 - Jak działa gaslighting?
5:29 - Gaslighting w bliskiej relacji
10:30 - Socjologia gaslightingu
12:38 - Jak się bronić przed gaslightingiem?

L'enfumage mental auto-infligé | Le gaslighting auto-infligé
L'enfumage mental auto-infligé | Le gaslighting auto-infligé Fakty Jebać fałsz 4 Views • 1 year ago

L'enfumage mental auto-infligé | Le gaslighting auto-infligé

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Intimate vs Tribal Gaslighting: Differences & How to Spot Them
Intimate vs Tribal Gaslighting: Differences & How to Spot Them Fakty Jebać fałsz 1 Views • 1 year ago

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Gaslighting is easy to miss. Especially tribal gaslighting - it's a whole different beast than the more commonly-known form of gaslighting called intimate gaslighting. Discover the true differences between intimate vs tribal gaslighting and how to spot them.

In this video, MedCircle host Kyle Kittleson and clinical psychologist / narcissism expert Dr. Ramani Durvasula answer...

What is tribal gaslighting or “gaslighting by tribe”?
What is gaslighting in relationships (aka intimate gaslighting) and how can someone spot it?
How is tribal gaslighting different than intimate gaslighting?
What are the major signs of gaslighting by tribe to look out for?
Can we walk through an example of gaslighting by tribe in action?
What can & should I do when this happens?

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Fakty Jebać fałsz 2 Views • 1 year ago

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Che Cos'è il GASLIGHTING: Se lo Conosci, lo Eviti!
Che Cos'è il GASLIGHTING: Se lo Conosci, lo Eviti! Fakty Jebać fałsz 1 Views • 1 year ago

E' una forma di abuso e manipolazione di cui tutti, prima o poi, siamo stati vittime magari senza saperlo.
Spiegherò cos'è, perché i narcisisti e altri manipolatori lo usano, quali sono alcune frasi comuni sul gaslight, come questo ti influenza come bersaglio nel tempo, e infine darò alcuni suggerimenti per affrontare il gaslighting e salvare la tua sanità mentale.
Se si può dare un nome, si può riconoscere ed evitare.
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Gaslighting or Conditioning? This is How Narcissists Hijack Your Brain
Gaslighting or Conditioning? This is How Narcissists Hijack Your Brain Fakty Jebać fałsz 1 Views • 1 year ago

In this video, Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, explains two methods of mind control Pathological Narcissists use to gain control over others, especially SLDs/codependents. Although gaslighting and conditioning are different, the perpetrating narcissist carefully and strategically uses both for their diabolical plan of power, control, and domination. Whether gaslighting or conditioning, with recognition, it is then possible to neutralize them. Both result in the creation of self-sabotaging and inaccurate thoughts, feelings, and beliefs, which in combination, freeze a victim SLD/codependent from ever experiencing self-love, self-respect, and self-caring.

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Ross Rosenberg M.Ed., LCPC, CADC is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness, and celebrated author. He is also a global thought leader and clinical expert in codependency, trauma, pathological narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and addictions.

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Criminal PSYCHIATRIST dissects GASLIGHTING (+ case example)
Criminal PSYCHIATRIST dissects GASLIGHTING (+ case example) Fakty Jebać fałsz 2 Views • 1 year ago

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Gaslighting: a Mind Control Strategy
Gaslighting: a Mind Control Strategy Fakty Jebać fałsz 1 Views • 1 year ago

In this video, Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, explains why gaslighting is a mind control strategy used by covert narcissists to manipulate your thoughts and beliefs about yourself. Learn more about gaslighting at bit.do/gaslighting.

ROSS ROSENBERG BIOGRAPHY

Ross Rosenberg M.Ed., LCPC, CADC is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness, and celebrated author. He is also a global thought leader and clinical expert in codependency, trauma, pathological narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and addictions.

Ross's pioneering codependency contributions are responsible for the sweeping theoretical and practical updates and developing a treatment program that permanently resolves it.

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What is Gaslighting in a Relationship? Here are 10 Examples | By Mat Boggs
What is Gaslighting in a Relationship? Here are 10 Examples | By Mat Boggs Fakty Jebać fałsz 1 Views • 1 year ago

Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and 10 Examples of What is Gaslighting in a Relationship.

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Communication Skills Coaching: How to recognize gaslighting--what words and phrases to look for Fakty Jebać fałsz 2 Views • 1 year ago

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In this Communication Skills Coaching video, communication coach Dan O'Connor tells you how to recognize when someone is gaslighting you. He tells you the words and phrases to watch for, and as always, includes power phrases for effective communication. When somebody's gaslighting you it's about you and is calling into question your reasoning & your thinking, it's designed to take the focus off the subject at hand (that you're probably bringing up) and instead place it on you and your thought process and why you are that way and it's intended to get you to doubt your thinking.
That is not okay.
It's okay if somebody challenges us; it's okay if somebody questions our actions; it's okay if somebody calls out our behavior; it is not okay if somebody tries to get us to question our sanity.
That is not okay

So be cautious of that whether you're concerned about gaslighting at work or you're concerned about gaslighting in a relationship. Here's the type of thing to look for:

Now, remember gaslighting generally comes when you bring up something that you're not happy with or that you're concerned about and they respond to it with gaslighting.

So gaslighting isn't generally something that people do just to make you crazy--it happens--but generally, it's when you bring up something--the strategy of a gaslighter is to take the focus off of what you're addressing and instead place it on you.

Here's what it sounds like:
"I don't know what happened to make you this way, but I'm not engaging."
"Can you hear yourself? Seriously--you want me to set up an appointment with somebody?"
"Are you crazy?"
"Hey--you don't see me doing that, do you?"
"I really feel sorry for you."
"I'm sorry you think that way."
"I'm sorry you feel that way."
"I suggest reflecting on why you think that."
"I never said that."
"That is not at all what happened. You are remembering it all wrong."
"You're really making a big deal out of this."
"Here you go again; really, do you have to do this every time?"
"Hey--I'm not the problem here. Have you considered that maybe you're the problem--that maybe this is happening to you over and over again? It's not happening to me."
"My god--I was just joking--what's wrong with you? Where's your sense of humor? Don't be so sensitive all the time!"

Dan teaches how to improve communication skills by giving concrete examples, words, phrases and even the appropriate body language for responding to gaslighting, and other communication situations, with mindful but effective words. Go to Dan's website
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0:00 Intro
0:19 What is gaslighting?
0:33 Response #1
1:01 Gaslighting examples
2:00 what is gaslighting in a relationship?
2:40 What gaslighting is not
3:10 When people gaslight us
3:23 Gaslighting examples
4:10 What people might say to you?
4:45 More examples of gaslighting
5:26 If I see that caller ID one more time
5:44 Getting you to question your sanity is never OK
5:55 Your rules are OK

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