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If you've been subjected to any level of gaslighting in relationships, you may have noticed that it has caused you to doubt yourself. A lot. This is the intentional and malicious part of gaslighting that causes you to begin to believe someone else over your own reality. But the MOST dangerous part about being with a gaslighting narcissist is that it causes you to question everything - even your ability to trust your intuition. In this video, we cover what is gaslighting, how it destroys intuition and how to trust yourself again.
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Gaslighting is a form of manipulation that often occurs in abusive relationships. Gaslighting comes in many forms such as blatant lies, denying, using what you love against you, words versus actions and so much more. Gaslighters can be sneaky with how they manipulate you, and you may not realize it until later.
In a previous video, 5 Phrases Gaslighters Use to Control You, we talked about some gaslighter phrases. In this video, we’ll dive deeper into the gaslighters themselves to help you protect yourself from gaslighting abuse.
We also made a video on the examples of what gaslighting sounds like: https://youtu.be/y3t-Jvrr2OY
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Gleeson, J. (2018, December 5). Explainer: what does ‘gaslighting’ mean? The Conversation. theconversation.com/explainer-what-does-gaslighting-mean-107888
Guy-Evans, O. (2022, March 22). What Is Gaslighting? Examples & How To Respond - Simply Psychology. Simply Psychology. www.simplypsychology.org/is-so....meone-gaslighting-yo
Mcauliffe, K. (2022). Gaslighting at Work: 9 Phrases Gaslighters Love to Use. Career Contessa. www.careercontessa.com/advice/....gaslighting-in-the-o
Waters, S. (2021, December 22). What Is Gaslighting at Work? 6 Signs of Gaslighting and How to Deal. BetterUp. www.betterup.com/blog/gaslighting-at-work
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5 Signs Someone is Gaslighting You / Here are 5 signs that someone might be gaslighting you. One is that you're always second guessing yourself. You have trouble making decisions because you keep questioning your thoughts and your feelings. Two is that you get told a lot that you're too “something” -- too selfish, too sensitive, too emotional. Three is that you're always apologizing. You find yourself apologizing constantly in this relationship. Four is you often are making excuses with other people for that person's behavior or maybe you're covering for them. And five is that you know something's wrong, you've known it for a while, but you just can't put your finger on it. If you're seeing any of these signs, someone might be gaslighting you.
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